Spending time with those that love you is important. Growing up I sometimes felt that I wasn't loved. But I can remember thinking of God's abundant grace and feeling that yes indeed someone did love me and I wasn't really that desperate.
I'm not perfect and definitely don't always have the right answers...not even close in fact. I'm just striving striving striving to know Him better. Knowing Him better makes me better. Point here is that God's love is vital..family, ie: people arent always dependable. We must lean upon God..he never gets tired!!